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Reasons That Drive A Person To Cheat On Their Partners

When someone cheats it’s not just because they are a bad person but there are many other underestimated reasons attached to it. Such situations are majorly messy, misunderstood and heartbreaking in nature and are mostly dealt with immaturity.

The reason why someone cheats is as complex as counting the stars at night. And whenever any such incident happens, you usually look at the exterior part of the situation and just start cursing the person involved. Instead, such situations demand more of maturity and a depth study as to what was the internal reason that stimulated him / her to commit this thing.

Here are some reasons that will tell you about why people cheat on people they love.

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Availability Of The Opportunity

The first and foremost reason why people cheat on people they love is that they get an opportunity to do so. Most of the relationships start on a very casual note. Like you were friends or say colleagues and then you started hanging out together and went into a relationship after some time. Such relationships are often prone to cheating due to the ‘not sure’ attitude in the environment. Though the relationship evolves itself into an emotional one after some time, that time gap is quite vulnerable and open the opportunities for your partner to cheat on you.

Wants A Breakup

It is seen that the person who cheats on their partner were often looking for a chance to break up with their current spouse because of a toxic relationship. And they use the affair as an alternative for their happiness. This may be done consciously or even unconsciously because the person does not know how to express his / her feelings, they end up having an affair with the ideal person they want their spouse to be.

Wanting To Be Some Other Person

The next reason why people cheat on people they love is the desire to be someone else or even the actual self of themselves. When they are with their affair partner they feel more like an ideal person which they want to become. Suppose they feel themselves being more intelligent, sexy, independent etc, whereas with their spouse they feel more of a dull person.  This drives them to stay with the affair partner. Also, negative self talk can make them perform such an action.

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A Wake Up Call

Breakup sometimes does act as a wakeup call in a relationship. When you and your spouse get confronted with such situations, they often pay much more attention in the relationship, unlike before. Such incidents often change the perspective of the other partner and they see things differently, whether it is about emotional support or physical intimacy or even how they treat you.
It can sometimes make your relationship too. Like after such incidents you both will become more open and vocal about your problems and concerns.

Excitement

The other reason as to why people cheat on people they love is because either their life or the relationship is short on excitement and adventure. Yes, you read it right. Adventure is also one of the reasons why one cheats. Just to spice up things a bit or have a thrill in their life, couples end up cheating in each other.

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Unreasonable Expectations

We all have expectations from all sort of relationship we acquire in our life. But when these expectations turn into being unreasonable and irrational, they create problems between the couple. Whether it is the sexual need or the emotional need, when these expectations reach a space which is awkward, the person often try to run away from it and that’s exactly when they cheat on their partners.

Immaturity

Relationships are a very special bond and they need to be preserved. In order to prosper, they demand a lot of love trust and mature individuals. When a person lacks basic maturity, they end up messing up the relationship. Such people are habitually seen cheating on their partners as nothing is a ‘big deal’ for them. They lack the basic understanding of love and trust and ultimately create chaos. They often think that unless and until things are hidden, no one will get hurt but that’s now how things work.
But what they don’t understand that eventually, every lie opens up and so will theirs.

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