Trust is the most important factor in any relationship. Sometimes a big dramatic mistake is not necessary to lose it but small actions can also create trust issues. There are often situations when you unknowingly, just out of habit, do certain things which can hurt your partner and cause problems in your relationship. Here is a list you few habits you must discontinue right now to save your relationship from adapting trust
Beginning with the list, the first one is your habit of lying. Even a small lie, like ling to where you were this afternoon or what are you wearing to the party, even these small things can spoil the faith of your partner. You may find it easy and convenient to just tell a lie and get away with the situation but it will only affect your relationship in a longer term. Whenever this bottle of lie will break, you will only be left with trust issues in your relationship.
Talking About Your Partner With Someone Else
Sharing things about your relationship with someone in your family or friend is understood. It is quite common among couples nowadays. But sometimes talking about your partner at their back can create trust issues in your relationship. Above all when you spill everything about your partner to others, there is a possibility for it to create a problem. So, instead, prefer talking to him/her directly or you can also opt for a good therapist.
The most stupid thing couples do is to leave any arguments in midway. If you think ever in a conversation that you just can’t take anymore, take a deep breath and let the other partner talk. Continue putting your beliefs when they are all done speaking. Or maybe you can just mutually decide a better time or place to resume your conversation regarding the same. Hanging arguments often lead to more fights and trust issues.
Hiding Things About Previous Relationship
There is no point lying or hiding a thing about your previous relationship with your new partner. Eventually, things do come up and they will get to know about the truth. This can bring bad vibes and make our relationship prone to trust issues.
Stalking Your Ex
If you are in a new relationship that definitely means you were done with the previous one. So, why go back to that person? Many people are often seen stalking their exes on different social media platforms and that annoy their partner the most. So, even if you are a good friend with your ex then also liking every post they put is not justifiable.
Investigating Your Partner
Finally, if you are a sort of person who loves snooping on your partner’s social media platforms, calling list or even shirt pockets consequently, you are just making your partner feel that you don’t trust them. So, investigating their things behind their back is not a good habit and should stop it right now.